We all are here to be memories! What kind of memory you want to be in the lives of people  who you come across? Day after day and minute after minute we are going closer towards the end, maybe for a new start in an other lifetime. What about the present? Are we doing our part right as humans? Are we kind enough to give people reasons to be a part of their good memories?
For me, it has always been more important to make people good about themselves. I don’t do it for anything selfish but I feel my soul getting purified every time I make someone smile.

Do you remember any incident in your life when anyone known/unknown approached you and appreciated you for your work? Anybody telling you “Hey! You look beautiful today.” We still remember such people and that little appreciation by them still somewhere keeps us motivated. Have you ever thought why?
Well, according to me appreciating is such a beautiful art that it enlightens every soul from within! I still remember the day when I stood first in a debate competition in school, as I was not much of a teacher’s favorite student. when my Social Sciences teacher came to personally appreciate me, I can’t exactly describe how good and strong I felt that day and nobody knows that but she became my favorite teacher after that and I still feel happy when I think about her.

It is not difficult to break a heart, but to mend one is a real difficult task!
Once, mending becomes your core nature, it leaves a good impact on the lives of the so many people you come across. Whether you are a friend, a sibling or a colleague to someone, try finding out a single good in that person in whom everybody and even you see all the bad. There’s no person on this earth who is born with nothing good, we just need a better vision to see that.

As puberty decided to show its effects on me, I encountered many people & friends noticing it on my face. Almost everyday I got to hear names of some effective mask therapy or names of some good dermatologist to get a pimple free skin. And every time I used to hear that I used to scream to myself “Is that the only thing in me that is so loud to be noticed?”

It’s easy for people to comment on someone’s clothes, body parts or anything that according to them is odd! Yes ruling out odd is easy, but it is difficult to find something worth appreciating in a person.

Learn to appreciate, learn to be a reason for someone’s smile. Learn to make people good about themselves because once you start doing that, you don’t do any favor to them, rather you promote your growth.

I’m not saying that just for the sake of making people good about themselves, you should fake it because faking it won’t help you in growing into a beautiful soul that you should be. What I mean is, don’t look at someone’s imperfections, try finding out something that person is good at be it his/her fashion sense, voice, looks , sense of humor, it could be anything, learn to see it and appreciate!!

Appreciation comes from within and when it is there never ever stop yourself from making someone feel good, you never know that a little appreciation from you is the only thing that is needed for a hope to bud!

Some find it beautiful,
Some find it whimsical
and for some this world is a liar,
In a world full of imperfect people,
Try to be a perfect admirer.

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