I LOVE YOU!
How easy is it for human beings to say this to one another, before any guy reading this starts frowning, I apologize for not acknowledging your effort of trying to impress and propose the girl of your dreams or the so called “love of your life.”
In today’s era dating someone and changing your partner or having experiences with 3-4 people one after the other for finding true love has become so casual.
So I really want to ask a few questions to all the people who are in search of seeking true love.

You must have fallen for a girl/guy during your teens. How many of you have loved someone for the kind of person he/she is? How many of you have ever fallen for someone who laughs his/her heart out or makes everyone happy? Or with whom you have an intellectual connection but he/she doesn’t fit in your “Oh so wow” category? Well, all these questions come down to the fact that such people are badly friend zoned by most of us.

It’s easy, very easy to get attracted to a pretty face, but love my dear friend is not just about everything beautiful, it’s something big. Where all your boundaries, thoughts and perceptions end.
It’s about giving your soul to one person and having found that person you can never really think about any one else. You can’t even get attracted to some other person.
Well that doesn’t mean you fail to appreciate the beautiful world and people around you. It’s certainly not about getting lost in the depth of someone’s eyes, it’s not real, you’ll get it if you work in a private sector where there’s no time for such crap!
But yes there’s something so strong about love that whether you stay under the same roof or miles away from each other there’s a divine feeling of completeness, a feeling that cannot be put into words.
We all have our definition of love, for some it’s care, for some it’s friendship and for some it’s about a strong desire to be together forever. But, one thing is common in all these definitions, in any way love makes you feel complete.

You can easily say ‘I love you’ to a person you think you are in love with, but what is tough, is to make that person feel loved. If it is love you don’t really have to try to make that person feel it and if you have to try then it probably isn’t love. Love is a strong feeling. You can do almost everything for the person you are in love with, things that earlier seemed too crazy to you.  You’ll be ready to take a roller coaster ride, that scared hell out of you and none of your friends or siblings could ever convince you to sit in, all this while.
Love overpowers fear, confusion and all that is comes in between you and the person you are in love with. All that matters is the happiness of your beloved and that my friend, is above the cover your soul is wearing, be it ugly or beautiful.
Love is when there’s an intellectual, emotional and a spiritual connection between two souls and when this connection is there, you can just feel it.

When all the doubts fail to arise
Your souls are naked to each other
And there are no lies,
Their dreams become yours
And there’s no need to dramatize
And that day you’ll feel, what love is,
A kind of love that is glorified!

Yukti Trivedi